I almost always love Sundays. I love to go to church and see people I know and care about. Many at the church where we are now are becoming familiar faces. I am learning a lot of names, and even noticing who is not there. I always enjoy whatever the musical offering is. Today the young children played the bells and the children's choir sang a song. The adult choir is always exceptional.
"Writing, after all, is something one does. A writer is something one is." Benjamin Moser, NYTimes
Sunday, February 28, 2010
I Love Sundays
I almost always love Sundays. I love to go to church and see people I know and care about. Many at the church where we are now are becoming familiar faces. I am learning a lot of names, and even noticing who is not there. I always enjoy whatever the musical offering is. Today the young children played the bells and the children's choir sang a song. The adult choir is always exceptional.
Saturday, February 27, 2010
Practicing to Preach
Since I now preach only once a month, that gives me lots of time to prepare. Naturally, I always have my sermon prepared at least two weeks in advance. Today, I am practicing it out loud, as I always have. There was a time when I always taped it, and played it back and listened to it. Inevitably, there were parts that needed changing. But believe it or not, in today's technological downloading world, it is very hard to buy a good portable tape recorder. When my last one died, I tried, but found the quality to be very poor.
Friday, February 26, 2010
Weekly Doubles
Today I was back on the tennis courts playing with the women's doubles group. I had been under the impression that I was subbing for February for someone who who was out of town. I thought there was someone else who makes up the fourth player of the group. When they started talking about playing next week, I asked about that. They said, no no, you are part of the regular group. She only substitutes. I don 't know exactly how that happened, but I am certainly very glad.
Thursday, February 25, 2010
Stuck En Route
Gerry had an uneventful trip on the way out to Utah. Trying to get home is another story! First, his flight out of Salt Lake City was delayed, which meant that he would not make his connection in Detroit. He got a later flight to Detroit, but had to spend the night there. His flight out was early, so he got two hours of sleep. The next thing I heard was that his plane (the one headed for Syracuse) had maintenance problems. Then there was the possibility of flying into Rochester, NY.
Tuesday, February 23, 2010
Hodgepodge
Monday, February 22, 2010
This Stage
When the current job that I have was just a possibility, I very much hoped that it would be something that I would simply enjoy. No reason not to. I'm retired. Nothing I have to accomplish or prove. No statistical reports to worry about. I'm not in charge. Even though it was what I hoped, my enjoyment of this work has far exceeded my own expectations.
Sunday, February 21, 2010
First Sunday of Lent
Today is the first Sunday of Lent. Since I "went into the business" Lent for me has always been about taking on additional activities, events, services, studies, etc. For other people, it is more often about giving something up. Yo says she is giving up meat for Lent. That's quite a commitment.
Saturday, February 20, 2010
My Other Mother
Because my mother suffered from Alzheimer's Disease for many years, she could not really function as my mother. That being the case, I was the "mother" and she was the "child" for the last years before she passed away.
Friday, February 19, 2010
Let's Just Call Her Lucy
Lucy is not her name, but for the sake of anonymity, let’s say I visited Lucy today, another of the ladies in her eighties. I certainly do hear a lot of interesting stories, and always learn something in the process. Her great great great great grandfather (or however many greats) came over on the Mayflower. Lucy is a tiny little thin woman; scrawny would be a good word. But she looked lovely with a brand new perm. I learned this afternoon that she has always dreamed of tap dancing. And so tonight, I saw her fulfill that dream, parading around in tap shoes and a white boa at the talent show. That’s one good thing about church talent shows. It’s never too late to showcase your talent, or your dream.
Lucy sat across from me at the dinner. She is as sharp as a tack mentally, and says she likes to hang around intelligent people. She told me what she has recently done. She had contacted and been visited by and signed up with Hospice. There are doctors, and nurses, and people who will come to your house, who will take care of whatever your needs may be, who will help bathe you, and provide your meals. Lucy wants to die at home, and not in the hospital. I greatly admire her for taking care of all that by herself. I didn’t even know it was possible to make all those arrangements before you are even sick, presumably to bypass the hospital altogether.
It’s not that she is expecting that to happen any time soon. But just in case it does, she is now ready. She has taken care of the Hospice and the tap dancing.
Thursday, February 18, 2010
Keeping Busy
Gerry is away in Utah visiting family and enjoying a western ski adventure. Today I am actually shoveling snow. A friend is coming for lunch tomorrow and I want at least a pathway clear for walking to one of the doors.
Wednesday, February 17, 2010
Thoughts About Parenting
Recently, I have had occasion to reflect on my parenting experience. As I do so, I recognize that people from the same family can have completely different experiences of their parents. When a child is born, he or she is born at a certain time, into a certain set of circumstances. In my own case, the parenting experience spanned thirty three years, from the time my first child was born, until my last child graduated from high school. That is a long time! Many things can change.
Tuesday, February 16, 2010
Not Blogging for a Few Days
I was shocked to get an email from a friend who apparently reads my blog daily. She's not registered as a 'follower' but is a 'follower' nonetheless. She was actually missing my blog and checking to see if I am all right!. Somehow a number of days whizzed by without me blogging. That never happens when I am in my regular rhythm.
Friday, February 12, 2010
Sunflowers
Thursday, February 11, 2010
My Valentine is Gerry
Wednesday, February 10, 2010
Long Long Winter
Tuesday, February 9, 2010
Moving In
Monday, February 8, 2010
Talking to Anybody
Sunday, February 7, 2010
Divinely Ordained
Friday, February 5, 2010
Women's Doubles
Thursday, February 4, 2010
Potluck and Potpourri
But the programs have been fascinating. It is impressive to me that they end exactly on time, because half the people then go to choir practice. Tonight's presentation was by one of the 'treasures' of the church. She is a ninety three year old lady whose husband was the pediatrician in town for many years. She is apparently a graduate of Cornell University's College of Architecture and Art. She gave a fascinating presentation on renaissance art! She stayed right on topic, used interesting slides projected on screen, told her stories with a great deal of humor to a great deal of laughter, and ended five minutes early!
Last week's presentation was on the Strong Museum of Play in Rochester. Next week's is on interesting tools of the nineteenth century.
The potluck is the food, the potpourri is the program.
We go with small plates and open minds!
Wednesday, February 3, 2010
Insights and Visions
An angel of the Lord appeared to me and said,
“How dare you! How dare you put yourself down!
Do you not remember that pride leads to destruction?”
I pondered for a moment how my negative
self thoughts might make me proud.
And I did not understand at all.
The angel said again, “Pride goes before the fall.”
I wanted to ask how that could be, but before I spoke,
The angel spoke again to me.
“Pride dethrones God and puts you at the center of the universe.
Putting yourself down is a twisted form of pride.”
Aha, I thought,
Whether we denounce ourselves, or think we are the winner.
Either one is arrogance.
Then, it is utter arrogance to label ourselves a failure,
for any reason. That is cruel judgment.
We only fail for a season. (Or maybe even less.)
That is not who we are.
God desires for us blessings and success.
(I’m glad I still have insights;
Some, better late than never!)