One of the things that I notice these days is women's shoes. At a meeting where a group of women are gathered (and at meetings I attend, they tend to be over fifty), I always look around at everyone's feet.
I remember with some fondness (and a lot of pain) those very spiky high heels that women once wore. Back when I was working at the university, I used to park in the parking lot a significant distance away, and walk to my office in four inch heels. Of course, that is probably the reason why I have such terrible foot problems today. Nowadays, women are more practical and walk in sneakers, and carry their dressier shoes with them.
There is still a tiny bit of me that wishes I could wear heels. Of course the days of wearing high heels are long gone. One inch heels would be good; two inch would be even better. Even those days are long gone as well.
Even dressy flats would be a joy to wear. But I have to use orthopedic inserts in my shoes because of plantar fasciitis issues. I also need thick soles on my shoes, for the same reason. Fallen muscles; fallen arches. Sixty plus and fallen everything!
Sadly, I must admit that now my shoes often look like the "old lady" shoes I always wanted to avoid wearing. I couldn't understand for the life of me why older women would wear "old lady shoes". Now, I understand completely.
There really is no choice in the matter at all!
I do remember envying Frieda, a wonderful ninety year old lady from one of my churches. I was so impressed when she wore high heeled boots to her birthday party.
Another observation I've made lately---the older women who wear heels are very slight of build. I guess the feet stay healthier when they don't have very much to carry around.
Here's the bright side. With the right sneakers, and the right inserts, I can play ninety minutes of vigorous tennis. That is worth more to me than any pair of shoes I might wish I could wear!
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