Thursday, March 29, 2012

Funerals

I suppose one does arrive at the "age of funerals", when so many of the friends, neighbors, colleagues, church friends, etc. leave this world.

On Wednesday, I attended an especially moving funeral service for a woman from church.  She has been fighting cancer for the past year.   Let's call her "Donna".   I have not known her for very long, though I did visit her in her home, during her last week.  Even so,  I really didn't expect to be as deeply affected as I was.  I had a lump in my throat several times, and tears in my eyes more than once.

She was only a few years older than I am.   Her children are probably the age of my children.  The same would be true with the grandchildren---some teens, some tots. Donna had known her share of challenges and grief.  She was a person of tremendous faith, and strength.  One simply could not listen to the testimonials given by her children and grandchildren without being deeply moved.  One grand-daughter, a high school senior, chose to sing the song,  "For Good", from the Broadway musical Wicked.   It started off beautifully;  then about half way through, she was overcome with emotion and could not go on.  Her father came and stood with her.  The accompanist continued to play skillfully, giving her a chance to start at an appropriate moment with the music.  For the final chorus,  the grand-daughter's voice returned, and she sang out those final words with a crystal clear voice, soaring.

I know I'm who I am today, because I knew you.  Who's to say if I've been changed for the better,  I do believe I've been changed for the better;
And because I knew you, because I knew you,  I've been changed for good.


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