Four or five years ago, I bought this eight foot trellis and had a particular vision of vines climbing up it and all around it, all the way to the top.
Every year, I tried. I know one year, I tried with morning glories, but the heat and other elements stunted the flowers and they never really made it up the trellis. So that was one failed attempt.
I know for at least two other years, I bought and desperately wanted climatis plants to climb up my trellis. I have in my mind's eye a beautiful deep purple prolific climatis that completely enveloped a post in our front yard in a previous parsonage house. I've never been able to replicate that. Now that I think about it, that particular location was very shady, and I have no such shady spot in our current home. So that was several more years of failed attempts.
This year, I decided on the garden as a possible location, and thought I might try pole beans. From previous years experiences, I know that pole beans are very hard to find. Mostly the garden places carry bush bean seeds, so there was a challenge there, but I figured if anyone had pole bean seeds, it would be Agway, and indeed they did.
So this year, the particular vision I had with I bought this tall trellis has been fulfilled. I see several life lessons here. First, sometimes it takes time for a vision to reach fruition. Second, you can expect failure on the way to realizing the fulfillment of the dream.
The trellis is just a metaphor here for life. It applies to all things, really. If at first you don't succeed, try, try again.
All of this reminds me of a favorite saying of mine:
Success is never final; failure is never fatal. It is courage that counts.
I really like your saying. I hope you don't mind, I made note of it. It's something I should keep in my mind.
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